At our London Escorts Agency, there was a women who asked a question to the agency. At the agency, we always have these man panels with three or four guys that have come to sit in the hot seat and answer any question the women want to know about love, sex, dating, relationships, what have you. And a woman asked the question: “How do I get my man to do more of what I want basically? How do I get him to anticipate my needs? How do I get him to be more chivalrous, more romantic?” And one of the men who is waiting for his booking, named Stephen, gave a great answer. He said, “You know, most women want men to anticipate their needs just like you’re saying. Most women will drop hints here and there and expect men to pick up on those hints and then do what it is that they want.” He goes, “That’s impossible. You know, you’ve got to be direct when you’re communicating with a man.” A friend of mine always says, you know, “Men don’t speak hint.” And it’s true. We don’t. You’ve got to be direct when communicating what you want with a man.
And then he said this: “Be direct and preface it with this statement: ‘You want to know what would really turn me on?’” And everyone busted up and started laughing and the funny part it it’s funny and it’s true. You preface anything with that statement and you will instantly have a man’s attention, because you want to know what turns all men on? It’s women who use the phrase “turns me on.” You see, every man has their sense of worth hard-wired to their ability to provide for you mentally, emotionally, and definitely physically. That is where our sense of worth comes from is our ability to make you happy, our ability to fulfill your needs, you see? As one of these marriage masters that we interviewed around the country said (the guy’s been married over forty years), “If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” Alright? So our sense of happiness comes from our ability to make you happy.
Now, there’s two other phrases. Ultimately, what we’re getting at here is the art of man-suasion, right? How to really connect and communicate with a man so that he knows how to serve you best because truly we will just at the opportunity. Two other phrases that really impact us are, “Can you help me with this?” and, “You want to know what would really make me happy?” Sometimes you might feel uncomfortable or the situation doesn’t really call for a “turn me on” statement, so you can use the one, “You want to know what would really make me happy?” And that works quite well. So if you’ve liked this material, you can get more at London Escort Agency. Or if you’re not in the area, you can visit the site at https://www.cityofeve.org. Watch it from the comfort of your own computer. And we’re going to go into the three mistakes that most women make early on in a relationship that pushes men away. See, I don’t believe is mistakes. Ultimately, it’s simply a miss-take. A mistake is a miss-take, a strategy that just really doesn’t work quite as well.